Lifestyle: Women have so many things in their mind to pass on over to their men when it comes to bedroom secrets. Turning on women is a fine art. Here are some secrets women wants men to remember.
A lot of women are anxious about their looks
For a couple that has been together for long, at times it is natural that women may feel that their lover may find them less alluring. Because of this a number of women undress only under the cover of darkness. Loving men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she’s gorgeous if she isn’t, nor is there a need to say that she is not looking gorgeous anymore. One can always understand and admire what you do find attractive.
For a woman sex isn’t separate from rest of her life
Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her partner treats her out of bed greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, cruel language, rude tones, unkind words, and criticism can make it hard for a woman to get involved, be passionate and feel enthusiastic during sex.
An orgasm is not a necessity
Numerous men feel that a good partner is one who can bring his woman to climactic sexual culmination. It is great to have such moments, but aren’t always necessary. A lot of women feel pressure from partners and even from themselves to reach an orgasm. Occasionally instead of having orgasms, women wish to engage in just foreplay.
Sex need not be a serious act
Playfulness is a great quality. A lot of men are far too serious about sex. They forget to laugh, be romantically naughty, and have fun. Teasing and light-heartedness can make intimate moments pleasurable and relaxing. This takes performance weight off from both partners.
Safe sex goes a long way
This is something both men and woman need to focus on, because women do appreciate it when a man cares about the circumstances that may follow after the sexual experience. It shows the women that he practices what he preaches, and that could surely turn any woman on. It also proves you feel you are a team with an emotional and not just physical connection.
Learn what pleasures her
Learn all about everything she wants in the bed. Women love to talk, so that means you should take advantage of that quality and find out how to satisfy her sexually. Ask her what she likes and how she likes it done exactly. Besides finding out what she likes during sex, it will also show her that you really do care about what makes her moan.
Women cherish non-sexual touching and compassion
Women love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But several women complain that their partner never do this except during foreplay. A woman should make her man realise the happiness of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your partner what makes you feel loved and wanted.