Interested in dating younger women? Well good news for you. They are interested in dating you, too. Younger women are primed and ready for an older man to come along and sweep them off their feet.
If the age difference between you and your girlfriend is more than five years, there are certain things men need to be aware of so that they can get the most out of a relationship, which is exhilarating, yet at times, demanding, and one that needs a bit more sensitivity and flair on your part as the older one in the relationship.
Don’t hide past relationships
If you’ve lived more, chances are, you might have stuff you may want to come clean about. If not immediately, then sometime later when things start getting serious, you might want to reveal the divorces break-ups that you went through, if it’s going to affect your life.
Don’t flaunt the cash
You, being the older one in the relationship, will surely be better off financially, but flaunting all the dough isn’t necessarily a good thing.”Flaunting cash is a short-term thing. Girls might fall for it, especially the college-going ones. But the moment the guy stops doing that, most girls think he has stopped loving them and somewhere down the line, he may also stop showering attention.”
Treat her like an equal
You might feel, at times, the weight of the wisdom you’ve acquired through the years and want to take charge, but make sure you’re not condescending.”There needs to be mutual respect. Without that, you’re just trying to take advantage of the situation and it may never come off well. Being patient, yet non-serious and non-judgmental is important.”
If you are already dating, the generation gap might not be too much of an issue, but remember that it does exist. “When you’re dating a younger girl, know that she’s from a different generation. Things are changing quickly now. So, from the guy’s perspective, the older one should give much more space and handle all the madness.”
If things turn serious, you might want to consider settling down. But in the case of a younger person, they might want to wait up a bit and live more before they decide to settle or get hitched. People want to live their lives fully and make their own mistakes, lest they feel they left out on something, “If you’re looking at it as a casual fling, great. If the girl is young, she might not know what she wants later in life. She might think differently a few years, or even a few months down the line and want to wait it out,” he adds. Remember, the younger person can take the gamble as they have the time, which you might not.